deadlock of gap lock upgrade to insert attention lock (no replies)

how can i insert a absolute new data in concurrent trx.
my idea like this example:

##trx1 and trx2
begin;
##trx1
select max(id) from `test_lock` where (`aid` = 10) limit 1 for update;
##trx2(have blocked)
select max(id) from `test_lock` where (`aid` = 10) limit 1 for update;
##trx1
insert into `test_lock` (`aid`) values(10);
##then trx2 will gave a deadlock error and look that error even not need to commit


//prepared:
CREATE TABLE `test_lock` (
`id` int(11) NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT,
`aid` int(11) NOT NULL,
`otherinfo` varchar(45) DEFAULT NULL,
PRIMARY KEY (`id`),
KEY `aid` (`aid`)
) ENGINE=InnoDB AUTO_INCREMENT=3 DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8mb4;
insert into `test_lock` (`aid`) values(10);